🔹 Not sure where to start?
Most people don’t need more options.
They need direction.
Pick what sounds like you. Start there.
1️⃣ “I want something simple. No pressure.”
You don’t need tech. You don’t need complexity.
You just want to try something that feels better than your hand.
Start with: Tenga-style strokers
Why: Low commitment, easy to use, zero learning curve
➡️ Want more control and texture options? Guide to Strokers
2️⃣ “I want more control and better sensation.”
You’re past disposable. You want something that actually feels intentional.
Start with Strokers with structure
Why: More texture, more control, still fully in your hands
3️⃣ “I want it to do the work for me.”
You’re not here to guess. You want intensity, immersion, and consistency.
👉 Start with: Interactive / app-controlled strokers (Max 2, Solace, Calor)
👉 Why: Automated stimulation, customizable experience, next-level upgrade
4️⃣ “I want something we can use together.”
This isn’t solo. This is shared.
👉 Start with: Couples toys Play Together
👉 Why: Adds stimulation without interrupting connection
➡️ Want help choosing the right dynamic? The Savage Guide to Couples Toys
5️⃣ “I want vibration / external stimulation.”
You’re not looking for a stroker. You want targeted sensation.
👉 Start with: Bullets, wands, or wearable vibes
👉 Why: Direct stimulation, simple use, wide range of intensity
➡️ Want to compare types and styles? The Savage Guide to Vibrators
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